Affirmations * I am not to blame for being beaten and abused. * I am not the cause of another’s violent behavior. * I do not like or want abuse. * I deserve to be treated with respect. * I don’t want my children to grow up to batter or be battered. * I deserve a safe and happy life. * I am not alone. I can ask others to help me. * I have options. Material is copyright © Support Network for Battered Women 1997-2002. Used here with permission.